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Tuesday 15 July 2014

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My old Collins dictionary defines a friend as 'a person known well to another and regarded with liking, affection and loyalty.' It's an old dictionary and does not comment on the phenomenon of internet friends-- names that pop up on our Facebook or LinkedIn  page, requesting or accepting friendship. True, some folk take this reaching out to extremes, claiming hundreds, even thousands of contacts collected like model cars or stamps.
Is it possible to interact with people we have never met? Of course it is. How many penpals form lifelong friendships? With the easy availability of the Web, nobody need feel isolated. Sometimes the influx of mail is overwhelming. All too often I hastily skim, scan and delete, but I never disregard a friend's name, shining like a flake of gold amongst all the dross. Somebody has remembered me and bothered to write. My Inbox friends are as much a part of my life as relatives.
I was thinking about friendship as I raised a call for help to set up this blog. The authors and staff at Secret Cravings Publishing, my publishers, rallied when I confessed my technical ignorance and feelings of incompetence. People offered help, assured me it was fine to make mistakes, and set out the process of building a blog site. Here it is! Just like that. I want to thank supportive and warm friends, my fellow authors. You know who you are. I hope I can be of equal assistance to you some day.

30 comments:

  1. Bravo, Margaret! This is a great blog. Welcome to the world of bloggers. And congratulations on tackling this job and winning.

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    1. Well, you said I could I do it! But it was a joint effort for sure.

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  2. It looks great and you'll add more and more covers as time goes by....See, I knew you could do it...

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    1. New things are always daunting but the backing of friends soon solves problems. Thanks Tabitha.

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  3. Great job, Margaret! Sorry I wasn't more help. I just can't get caught up. Here's wishing you much success!

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    1. I know it's a full-on time for you, Cindy. Hope things settle down soon.

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  4. Your blog looks great. You did it! Love the header photo and title. I'm a subscriber now and look forward to reading more posts in the future.

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    1. No Sandy, WE did it. And thanks for subscribing too. I'll have to get my thinking cap on. Plan to write a few reviews.

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  5. Congratulations on a beautifully presented site, Margaret. Your musings on friendship struck a chord with me. I value my online contact with fellow writers. The distance that separates us is no obstacle to sharing information and the mix of success and disappointments that is an inevitable part of the writing life.

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    1. Thanks so much, Teena. I have more contact with my online friends than I do with my family, as I am an expatriate.

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  6. Good for you Margaret. Love the red rose and also the thoughts on friendship

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    1. Your post finally came through, Dale. Thanks for your comment. City of Newcastle is a fine companion to Mr Lincoln rose.

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  7. Thanks Dale. It grows in my garden, City of Newcastle is the name.

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  8. Well done Margaret. I love your words about friendship. May your life continue to overflow with friends.

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  9. Congratulations on your entry into the blogosphere.
    And congratulations on the attractive blog you have presented.

    As you asked for any observations, I have looked at your posts with my critiquing hat on from a readerly POV and would suggest you write paragraphs on the line of newspaper articles - namely lots of very small paras - almost one sentence to a para.
    By that means it becomes easier on the eye to read rather than being confronted with large blocks of text.
    Just a thought.
    Well done.

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  10. This looks great! Well done, Margaret!

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  11. Welcome to Blogger, Margaret:) Yes, I would suggest adding a space between paragraphs:) You're off to a great start!

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    1. Thanks for feedback. I will space things next time. Thought it might be an automatic programme.

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  12. Congratulations on your Blog! I did subscribe by email!

    Sad, we were military and moved so often I never really had friends to keep up with, such is the life of a military brat. I went to 11 schools in 12 years. I have been out of school 38 years, never have gone to a reunion and have never kept up with a single classmate.

    I will say via email and facebook, I have so many friends. I have actually got together with several and met and had dinner! Including one I met via AOL over 15 years ago. We have shared triumphs and disappointments and loss of family members.

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    1. Then you have made up for the lack of stability in your childhood, by making friends who you keep even if you move house again. Thanks for subscribing.

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  13. Very nice blog! It's all a bit overwhelming at first. I remember well how I felt when I started blogging. I think you'll soon come to enjoy it very much. You're off to a good start.

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    1. Christina, I hope you are right. I am certainly pleased at the warm response.

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  14. Great job Margaret! The blog looks wonderful. Best of luck to you!

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  15. This is the second time I'm attempting to congratulate you on this new blog, Margaret - and to exclaim about the number of responses you have had so far. Well done. Hopefully this time things will cooperate - my connection is undergoing an upheaval and I'm working on it regardless ... perhaps we learn persistence from each other!

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  16. It's not all you, I'm sure. I have had a lot of trouble today replying to comments; one computer accepts them but the other one wants me to sign in under names or accounts I don't have. I guess will work it out some time. Yes, am astonished at the lively action and response. Guess all our time online actually does make connections.

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